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Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Hey Mom and Dad: Would You Buy Your Kid a Car?

Parents, Patch wants to hear from you on the questions that get families talking.

A couple of weeks ago, we asked parents if they had any rules for their new teen drivers. Of course, before those teens can be drivers, they need something to drive! Having your own car is one of the ultimate teenage status symbols (as Marty in Grease sang in "Summer Nights," "Like does he have a car?), but every parent has his or her own rules on how their rapidly growing-up bundle of joy should obtain that coveted set of wheels. Which brings us to this week's Hey Mom & Dad question: Take a look at what people had to say and join the conversation in the comments section. Sharon Crowder: "They should buy the car on their own—or do as my wise husband told our kids. He told them that he would buy them a used car when they could pay for their…

Renee Gough

12:16 pm on Tuesday, April 2, 2013

What, and miss out on the currency of loaning my car out to my kids? Nobody gets outta here with the keys to the car without picking up a few dishes, folding some laundry or at least giving Mom a big hug.   more ›

Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Hey Mom and Dad: What Curfews Do You Set for Your Teens?

Parents, Patch wants to hear from you on the questions that get families talking.

Welcome to "Hey Mom and Dad"—a weekly feature in which we ask our Facebook fans to share their views on parenting. Every week, we get the conversation started by taking a look back at a question we asked parents the week before on Patch Facebook pages from around the area. Most teens love to stay out late with their friends, a habit upon which many parents prefer to keep a certain degree of limitations. Mom and Dad tend to know better about when their kids need to get some sleep, after all—and when there's liable to be less reason to be out. Which brings us to this week's question: What curfews have you set for your teenage children, and how do you enforce them? Take a look at what people had to say and join the conversation in the …

mama clho

8:26 pm on Monday, May 13, 2013

Parents should know their kids and if they cannot have a daily conversation with their child..then they don't. our responsibility a parents is to transition our teenagers into adulthood...the more you trust and know your kids ...then you can make the right decision for your kids....tthere has to be.consequences for unmet expectations but always a conversation...u should be able to decide for your…   more ›

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Hey Mom and Dad, How Much Allowance Do Your Kids Get For Their Chores?

Parents, Patch wants to hear from you on the questions that get families talking.

Welcome to "Hey Mom and Dad"—a weekly feature in which we ask our Facebook fans to share their views on parenting. Every week, we get the conversation started by taking a look back at a question we asked parents the week before on Patch Facebook pages from around the area. Many parents assign their children certain chores or other duties around the house in exchange for a regular allowance as a good way to instill work ethic and responsibility. But the range of money paid and work performed can vary significantly from house to house. That brings us to this week's question: Take a look at what people had to say and join the conversation in the comments section. Julie Hallock Howard: We take a hybrid approach. Our philosophy is that chores …

Lisa Hoffer

3:05 pm on Wednesday, March 6, 2013

My girls earn an allowance ($3-$5 per week) only if they complete a chore that they select and were NOT asked to do. Cleaning your own bedroom does not count unless you do a major overhaul or some serious purging. They don't have a whole lot of need to purchase things for themselves hence the small payout. It's a lesson on developing initiative and being solely responsible for earning your money.   more ›

Monday, August 6, 2012

POLL: How Much Will You Spend Back-to-School Shopping?

Sales are expected to jump this year for back-to-school spending, according to the National Retail Federation.

$688.62. That is the amount the average person with children in grades kindergarten to 12th grade is expected to spend this year on back-to-school shopping, according to the National Retail Federation's annual back-to-school spending survey.  Last year, the survey predicted families would spend $603.63.  "With more children entering elementary and middle school this fall and after cutting back their spending last year, parents with growing children will hit the stores this summer to replace and replenish what their children might have had to “make-do” with last school season," according to a NRF press release.  Parents surveyed said they would spend the most on clothing, accessories, and electronics this summer as the first day of school …

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Marijuana Mama? A Woman Who Gave Her Kid Pot: Mom Talk

Today is National Pot Smoker's Day. Patch tells a true story of one mom who thought it was safer to grow her own for her 14-year-old to keep the teen from buying off the streets.

This story is absolutely shocking, and it's true. There is no Brady Bunch here. A couple I know ended up taking in a 14-year-old boy into their home. We'll call the boy Bobby, which isn't his real name.  Bobby was taken away from his mother, Carol. Carol admitted she was Bobby's pot dealer. She said she would rather Bobby get his drugs from her as a quality control issue. Apparently Carol was growing it at home for them both. She said if Bobby bought the marijuana on the streets, it could be laced with something deadly. Carol's way was safer, she claimed.  Meanwhile, Bobby's dad, Mike, was out of the picture. Mike and Carol were divorced. He lived out of state.  Bobby also has a 21-year-old brother who lives on his own. We'll call the …

Lisa

10:22 am on Wednesday, April 20, 2011

I, personally, am of the mind that if you make it "ok" for your child to do _____ (fill in the blank w/whatever may apply) then it will give them the unspoken permission to do ______ (again, fill in the blank). If I allow my 14 year old to have her boyfriend in her bedroom with the door shut, should I be surprised to find out that they are not sitting in there playing connect four??? We, as …   more ›

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